The Assertive Cancer Patient: Gets a Second Opinion

There are three very good reasons to get a second opinion, and even a third, when you are diagnosed with cancer. The first is to confirm the diagnosis. The second is to explore treatment options, which may include alternative medicine. And the third is to make sure that you have chosen the right doctor for you.

This whole process of getting referrals, researching doctors, gathering test results, and making appointments may feel overwhelming when you have just been told that you have cancer. But in a few weeks or months, you will be very glad that you did this. This is also a job that can be delegated to a trusted friend or relative, who can make the appointments, organize the paperwork, and go with you to appointments to be a second set of eyes and ears.

Many people are afraid that they will offend their first doctor by saying that they want a second opinion. A couple of thoughts on this: Second opinions are routine in cancer medicine. No good doctor should be offended by your saying you want a second opinion. And if the doctor is offended, what does that tell you? Is this someone you want to trust your life to?

Also, if you live in a rural area or smaller city, you may not want to travel to a major cancer center for treatment, but it is a good idea to go to one of these centers for a second opinion. Then you can have your treatment closer to home if you desire, secure in the knowledge that a doctor who is a specialist in your type of cancer has been involved in planning your treatment.

@ Jeanne Sather 2006